Wow. You’d think I’d have something a bit more profound to say, but perhaps I’m still in shock. So, wow. Here’s a quick update:
* We’re all OK. We were at church during the fire.
* Our house did burn, but is still standing. The fireman said it was likely because it’s winter, and the house was sealed up, so there wasn’t enough oxygen to keep the flames going. The part of the house where the main electrical line comes in is completely burned away, you can look down into the crawlspace from the bedroom door. While not official, the firemen think the main line in the crawl space is what caused the fire.
* Sadly, our 2 dogs (Tigger & Tux), our cat (Kiki), and my sister in law’s 2 dogs (Bruno & Ella) all perished in the fire. Their loss is the roughest part right now, as everything else that was lost is just stuff.
* The insurance company wasn’t reachable today. While I’m not sure if they’ll consider the house a complete loss, or will requisition to have it fixed, rest assured we do have insurance.
But all that isn’t why I came into work so I could update my website. The world could have waited a day to find out more details. I decided to drive into my office and update my website (while Donna is off buying underwear and such) because of how amazing everyone has been to us. Here’s a few of the things, other than our house burning down, that have been going on today:
* Before the fire was even extinguished, we had a place to stay tonight offered by friends.
* Before the fire trucks were gone, another friend from town offered to let us stay in a rental property he has while our insurance things are being worked out.
* The Red Cross tracked us down and gave us money to buy food and clothes.
* My cellphone (the one I have with me, my personal cellphone was in the house) hasn’t stopped buzzing from emails, tweets, facebook messages, text messages, etc. I have cried more today due to the outpouring of love than I have from the grief of loss. There really aren’t words to relay my thanks.
* Linux Journal put up a “Chip In” page, which is literally a link that people can send us money directly to my paypal account. It’s 7:00PM, and there’s already over two thousand dollars donated. That’s real money from real people, and we’re really humbled.
I really don’t know what to say. I really don’t. “Thank You” certainly doesn’t seem sufficient, but I think it’s all I can offer. So many people have contacted me, that I have no hope of responding to everyone, at least not in the short term. Just know that you’ve made me cry, in a good way, and today — that’s quite a feat.
So again, thank you. Thank you for your thoughts and prayers. Thank you for your emails. Thank you for you cash donations. Thank you for caring. Because really, if nothing else, I’ve felt as though we are important to you all, and that has been amazing to experience.
-Shawn, from work.

#1 by Luis Correia on January 18, 2010 - 2:53 am
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hang in there mate, we’re with ya!
#2 by Brandon on January 18, 2010 - 2:55 am
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on behalf of myself and my dog murphy we extend our deepest sympathies on the lose of your pets. best of luck to you and your family..
#3 by xaethos on January 18, 2010 - 3:13 am
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Shawn, I’m terribly sorry to hear about the disaster. I’m particularly saddened by the loss of your pets; I know they can be family as well. On the other hand, I glad you, your wife and children are okay. Here’s hoping that all of you can get back on your feet as soon as possible.
#4 by Erick Tyack on January 18, 2010 - 7:59 am
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Shawn, I am relieved to know you and your family are OK, and saddened to by the death of your family pets. Let me know if there is anything I can do to help. You and your family are in our thoughts and prayers.
#5 by Kim Stahl on January 18, 2010 - 9:18 am
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R u all ok? What can we do to help? I’m so sorry! Send Donna my love and we’ll b praying. We don’t have much, But I will offer all that I can. Give me a list and I’ll do whatever I can to fill whatever we have to offer. I’m so sorry about your losses. You must all be devastated. I hurt for you!
Love in Christ,
The Stahls
#6 by Jimmy the Geek on January 18, 2010 - 9:37 am
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I’ve been there & done that, Shawn, so I know how you are feeling right now. It’s times like this that restore your faith in people and in God, because he does provide through those who care.
I’m sorry to hear about your family’s loss, and I’m chipping in what I can. If y’all ever need to fly South for the winter, you have a place to stay in Franklin, KY!
#7 by KR8L on January 18, 2010 - 9:39 am
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Shawn — woke up this morning thinking about you and your family. No words are adequate to express our feelings here. Just glad you are all OK.
So, despite all that you have going on, you took time to think of others and post an update because you knew we would want to hear from you. You are amazing and you are an inspiration for all of us … we need more people like you in this world.
#8 by Donna Walin on January 18, 2010 - 9:43 am
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Holy cow! I’m so glad your core family is well and safe.
Blessings to your pets. It’s rough to lose them.
You family is strong and will get through this.
I, as well as the rest of your friends, are here for you and the family.
Love to all
#9 by Mary Lou Newcomer on January 18, 2010 - 10:10 am
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Shawn and Donna,
I was so sorry and shocked to read about your housefire, and glad all of you are safe. You will be in my prayers.
#10 by Janiece on January 18, 2010 - 10:15 am
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I’d like to third (fourth?) the request for an Amazon Wish List for the family. I’d like to send some things, and want to make sure you guys are getting what you want and need in the way of comfort items.
Love again!
#11 by Seanbo on January 18, 2010 - 10:54 am
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Shawn.. My thought and prayers are with you and your family. I can’t imagine what you are going through, but we’re all here for you and your family. Good luck with everything and keep your chin up.
#12 by Jim Olson on January 18, 2010 - 11:07 am
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Shawn, my prayers go out to you and your family, and I grieve with you over the loss of your pets. You’re right, the rest – however sentimental – is just stuff that can be replaced. I know I’m a long way from you but holler if you need anything, even just to talk. I’ve been through two fire losses (thank GOD they weren’t my house) and I know the feelings that go with it.
#13 by Mark_thetrigeek on January 18, 2010 - 11:38 am
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I am in complete shock. You have my prayers.
#14 by Saqib on January 18, 2010 - 12:13 pm
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I am sorry to hear about your loss.
#15 by Sue Hoy on January 18, 2010 - 12:20 pm
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Shawn and am very sorry about ur lose ur family are in my prays and thoughts all the time. Love Aunt Sue
#16 by Stranger on January 18, 2010 - 1:12 pm
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I’m glad all the people are okay, and sorry for your loss…
may the animals rest in peace….
#17 by Brian Stevenson on January 18, 2010 - 1:22 pm
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I’m so sorry for your loss. My prayers are with you.
Peace,
Brian
#18 by Carrie on January 18, 2010 - 2:30 pm
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OH Shawn! I am SO sorry. I’m crying over the pets. That is the worst part. Like you said, the rest is just stuff. You obviously have people around you who care very much for you. Pull strength from them when needed.
#19 by DanLopez2012 on January 18, 2010 - 2:31 pm
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I have to chime in with the sudden loss of those you loved.. And agreed the house is just filled with stuff, and blessings that the rest of you are safe. My prayers for you and yours friend.
Dan–
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#20 by Ryan Sears on January 18, 2010 - 3:15 pm
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I am so very sorry to hear of your misfortune. I can only imagine what you’re going through right now… Just know my thoughts are with you and your family (even if you don’t know me), and I hope you manage to get back on your feet!
#21 by stormy dickinson on January 18, 2010 - 8:57 pm
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hey shawn, my thoughts and prayers are with you guys!! the loss of your stuff, well, it’s just stuff, but your pets – that’s so hard… thank God you, donna, jessica and the kids are all safe. i posted your chip in web site on my face book, already have a couple of family members “chip in” – one from virginia the other from port huron, our community grows! you guys have touched so many people over the last several years, now it’s our turn to pay it forward! God bless!
#22 by Joe on January 18, 2010 - 9:40 pm
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I don’t know Shawn, or his family, or anyone here. I happened here because I occasionally check WWdN: In Exile.
I am saddened by his loss, as I too have felt loss for which there can be no comfort or replacement. Yet I am humbled too by the outpouring of support and compassion given to Shawn by this community. It gives me hope.
Shawn, rest easy and find comfort in the support you have here. I wish you and yours a speedy return to normalcy, and in the interim, good luck and God bless.
#23 by Heather on January 18, 2010 - 10:01 pm
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I’ve rallied the Hickman Troops, Sir! We just need to know what size the girls are wearing these days. Honestly, I’ve lost track of how old they are…perhaps I don’t want to feel old. Moira has a ton of boardgames, books, etc, just collecting dust. She said that “sharing with cousins is one of her favorite things to do”. (she’s weird I know) Also, I know its not polite to ask a woman what size clothes she wears, but if you send me a discreet email via FB, then I can see if I have anything for your incredible wife.
Do you need furniture for the rental house? I may have a 27″ TV for you.
Peace, Love, and Prayers.
Cousin Heather
#24 by Chris Smart on January 19, 2010 - 12:51 am
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Hey Shawn,
Praise God that you are all safe! From what I’ve read, you show the love of God to others that you meet and now is their chance to bless you in return.
All the best with everything.
Kindest regards,
Chris
#25 by Ben Eggenberger on January 19, 2010 - 1:01 am
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Shawn — I just realized — I have laptops! I mean DOZENS!!! Nothing fancy — I think they’re 1GHz with 512 MB RAM, or something — circa 2002. Anyway, as many as you want — yours for the asking! PLEASE let me know if you could use them.
#26 by Nicole on January 19, 2010 - 3:55 am
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I read about your loss in Wil Wheaton’s blog and wanted to send some supportive thoughts and blessings from Germany over to you and your family. How sad that your pets died, I feel with you and hope everything will be right for you again soon. Will pray for you all!
Nicole
#27 by Smotsie on January 19, 2010 - 5:39 am
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Hey Shawn and family,
I feel like I have come to know you from reading LJ and watching your crazy videos. Just know that people across the world are thinking of you now and hoping that you soon replace the material things you have lost. As for the irreplaceable, take comfort in the memories of good times – and you did back up your photos, right? (I MUST do mine!)
Fond wishes from the UK
Smotsie
#28 by Madrigorne on January 19, 2010 - 5:50 am
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I am so very very sorry for your loss. You, your family, and your sister in law have my deepest condolences. Gentle hugs for all of you.
#29 by Melby on January 19, 2010 - 6:21 am
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Came here via Scalzi’s post via Ghlaghghee’s tweet (as I’ve been slacking horribly with my blog reading). So very sorry to hear about what has happened. It’s amazing so many people have been so wonderful in your time of need, though. It’s times of crisis one truly finds out who their friends are, no? I wish you the best of luck in moving forward with your lives, and my deepest sympathies on the loss of the furry family members.
(PS- your comment for the tickbox for email alerts is hilarious. I think I will likely be coming around here more often, if you don’t mind. You seem like an awesome person, which is only exemplified by seeing how quickly those who know you rushed to help however they could. I’m only sorry it took such an event for your blog to come into my radar.)
#30 by jessica beaudry on January 19, 2010 - 9:57 am
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hey shawn, just wondering who has what phones and what not, because i am coming home this weekend, i love and miss you guys cant wait too see you either
#31 by Danyiel on January 19, 2010 - 2:12 pm
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Sorry to hear about your furkids, that’s got to be really hard on you and your family. But you’re right about everything else bing just stuff and it’ll take a while, but things can be replaced. Speaking from experience here, I know how frustrating it can be when you’re uprooted and trying to get affairs in order after such an unsettling event. It will pass, believe me. When all is said and done what you’ll be surprised about most is the renewed faith you’ll have in your fellow human, and believe me when I say that you’re going to need that support system for a while.
What is truly remarkable to me is that by word of mouth (I learned about your ordeal through John Scalzi and Wil Wheaton and have passed on your story in my own blog), your ChipIn goal has been almost reached in a matter of two days. Never lose faith in Humanity, Shawn, people will pleasantly surprise you when you least expect them to. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers and even though it will be rough for a while, things will get better over time. May the rest of 2010 bring you nothing but good luck and kindness. Namaste and take care.
#32 by bebe on January 20, 2010 - 5:52 am
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You are an image for the Linux community . At least for me . I love Linux . And i expect more Tech tips of the day …
I am glad to hear that you and your family are ok . I am from Bucharest , Romania . And here Linux news are so few ….
#33 by Dave B. on January 20, 2010 - 9:28 am
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Shawn- I’m a big fan of your Linux Journal videos; they’ve helped me innumerable times, plus they’re fun to watch! I just heard about the fire from Wil Wheaton’s blog, and I’m so sorry to hear about your losses, especially the pets. I am glad to hear of all the help your family is receiving from friends and strangers.
I wish you well as you recover from this tragedy.
#34 by Steve Schmunk on January 22, 2010 - 12:37 am
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Shawn- I was so sorry to hear of your fire and sorry for the loss of your pets (nearly family members). Thankful everyone survived. The fact that so many are rallying around you all and so quickly is a testament to the way you live and serve others. Keeping you all in thoughts and prayers.
#35 by Bob Dobbs Jr on January 28, 2010 - 1:52 am
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See what you get for going to church?
#36 by Marissa on April 26, 2010 - 2:18 pm
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I stumbled on your blog after googling Netflix Wii disc & your humor made me explore further. After reading (and crying) about your tragic loss, I wanted to tell you that I can’t imagine the pain you and your family went through after losing your beloved pets. I lost my cat six months ago tragically and still have trouble coping. Thank God you were all unharmed. My heart goes out to you & I wish you all the best.